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Bedwetting Knowledge Base

Bedwetting? Any remedies for a 12 yr old with a bedwetting problem?

bedwetting? i wet the bed and i dont want to tell anyone because im embarassed. but i need diapers or something for it. can overnight pads work for bedwetting b/c im too embarssed to tell!

How long do I have to be dry to know that my bedwetting is over? I've been dry for a while but exactly how long do I have to be dry to know that my bedwetting is over???? And please no hurtful comments, because not only are you insulting me but thousands of other 13 year olds who still we the bed.

What has everyone done for success with bedwetting? I have 2 kids that wet the bed, I really hate washing everyday, I do not put them in pull ups because they are just too expensive. We are thinking about getting a bedwetting alarm for my son since he is older. I have tried no liquids after dinner, no caffiene after 2pm, waking them an hr after they go to bed and every couple hrs at night, nothing has worked. Any advice would be helpful.

What kind of doctor would I take my son to for treatment of bedwetting? I plan to take my 7-year-old to a doctor at Children's Hospital for help with bedwetting. What kind of doctor should I take him to? There have been no psychological changes or trauma, but his dad was a bedwetter as a kid, too. I don't scold him or embarrass him about it - he wears pull-ups, and it's kind of a non-issue. But, the problem's not getting any better, and I'd like to get some professional help before it messes with his self-esteem.

What are some of the causes of bedwetting besides hereditary? I started bedwetting about a week ago and my parents said that they never had it, so does anyone have any idea what might cause bedwetting in a 13 year old?

Is anyone using Pampers Cruisers size 7 for bedwetting children? I am using Cruisers size 7 on my 2 older daughters, 10 and 7, for their nightly bedwetting. We have tried the goodnites and underjames but they were a pain, they always leaked. We have been using the Cruisers for a few years now. Has anyone else switched to the cruisers for bedwetting?

Is it really possible to hide bedwetting at a sleepover? My son is 9 has a genetic bedwetting issue. He wears pull-ups at night. He has been afraid of sleepovers in the past but now wants to go. Should I let him?

Can a UTI or bladder infection cause bedwetting? My girlfriend has been complaining of frequently having the urge to urinate but not passing much urine.She says she feels a little fatigued & lacks energy.Last night she urinated while she was sleeping.She is very embarrassed about it.Could she have a UTI/Bladder infection & could that have caused the bedwetting?

What are problems that could cause bedwetting after the age of 9? im researching sleep and this bedwetting paragraph explains why people do it but says if you bedwet after the age of 9 you should see a specialist. why is that? what could this mean?

How much longer do I have to be dry to know that my bedwetting is over? How long do I have to not wet the bed to know that my bedwetting is over?

Where can I get a bedwetting alarm? I've heard about bedwetting alarms but where do you get them? Do you have to get them from the doctor or can I buy one somewhere?

Is bedwetting connected to emotions in young women ? My 13 yr old neice has been bedwetting nightly since her arrival from vietnam 6 months ago. There is medically nothing wrong with her and she has tried alarms, drinking less before bed, nothing works. She's been quite emotional, often saying nothing, sits there and wets. What's the best solution to this ?

Should we let our bedwetting daughter go off to University? Our daughter will be graduating high school in May and has already been admitted to University, but she still wets her bed. Would it be better for her to postpone University and stay at home until she overcomes her bedwetting problem? Her admittance can be postponed; the school allows that.

Whats the average age to stop bedwetting? My daughter just turned six and is going into the first grade. She often wets her bed. Last night she slept with me and by husband and in the morning we were all wet. She refuses to wear diapers and stuff because she said she can't sleep. What do you think is the average age to stop bedwetting? When did you stop?

How do you hide bedwetting at sleepovers? I have a son that has a bedwetting problem. He is going into the 7th grade and it has gotten to the point where he will just say he will not want to go sleepover with friends because he is afraid that they will find out that he wets the bed and will make fun of him when I was young I also went through the same thing and I know that it is hard not being able to hang out with friends just for that

How many chances should I give a bedwetting foster child before sending him back? It's almost every night that he soaks the sheets, and the state doesn't pay for goodnite diapers or laundry, so I need to lay down the law. I'm going to give him a warning. What should the warning be? Should it be next time you wet it's out you go? Or should I say that if it happens 3 more times he's out? He's 12 years old so that's way too old to be peeing on himself at night.

Should I start wearing diapers to help my bedwetting girlfriend feel better? My girlfriend is a bedwetter and wears diapers at night. She is a little embarrassed about this. Should I start wearing diapers too so she doesn't feel alone?

How can I know when my bedwetting is over? How long do I have to stay dry to know that my bedwetting is over? btw: the reason it's under religion is because I noticed it's very popular and health isnt quite so much, especially bedwetting and it's a real problem

How can you tell the difference between a wet dream and just bedwetting? Total curiousity. I want to know how to "tell the difference". I already know "what the difference" is.

Should I have my son discuss his bedwetting with the Rabbi or is bedwetting strictly a medical issue? My 10 year old son wets almost every night. The doctor says he should grow out of it; it's just the way his body is growing. So all my son can do is wear underjams to manage the problem. I'm wondering if I should ask the rabbi to speak to my son. Maybe there are spiritual aspects to this as well. If there aren't, of course, we don't want to let another person in on this, as my son is very embarrassed by it.

what can I do to help a 6 year old boy with bedwetting? Bedwetting seems to occur only occassionally. When it does happen, it will go on for about 3-4 nights (sometimes more than once a night) and then ceases for 2 to 3 months.

What is the best way to pull a bedwetting prank? I have an annoying little cousin that loves to pull pranks on people. She has pulled atleast one prank on everyone in the family. I think its time for a little payback.I was gonna use the Old"Hand in warm cup of water" Trick but I have heard mixed reviews on its sucess. Any suggestions?

Is bedwetting in adolecents a sign of abuse? I know a family where all six children bed wetted until their teens. Two of the girls continued until they were in their late teens, the boys until they were 12 or 13 and one girl stopped at age 11. Does this suggest that they were abused? If so, what kind of abuse would be likely to cause this?

Have you ever used a bedwetting alarm for your child? My daughter is 6 and still wets the bed at night. The doctor suggests that we use a bed wetting alarm to train her. Have you ever used one for your child? Did it work? Any suggestions or input for me?

What causes bedwetting past the age of 13? I know most serial killers are known to wet the bed past the age of 13. Some professionals speculate that is a warning sign. Other suggest it's from disturbing behavior. What usually causes a child to wet the bed past the age of 13. I did it until I was about 16. To make a long story, I had a traumatic upbringing. Is there anyone here that has a tangible answer to this question?

For bedwetting, has any one have experience using the nasal spray Desmopressin Acetate? I have a RX for my 8 year old. Would like opinions and suggestions for how she administers it.

What is a good recommended way to help a child stop bedwetting ? I have a daughter and she is 9 years old and still wets her bed at night. I believe its mainly because she is such a sound sleeper, and hasnt been able to overcome this.

im 13 and i wear underjams diapers to bed because of bedwetting. should i get medication instead? Im 13 years old and i have to wear underjams diapers to bed for bedwetting problems. should i b using a different method?

How to deal with bedwetting of a seven years old?She stopped it before 3 but restarted.Even she is sad on this? I took her to doctor.We did some blood tests.Doctor said there is no problem with her. She do not have any emotional problems in school or anywhere.She is very talkative.She used to tell me each and everything.Her father used to scold her occasionally(I don't think it is related). She restarted bedwetting when she started to sleep away from us- with my mother in the next room.She is old enough for that.Right?

How did you get past nap and night time bedwetting after potty training? Our 2 year old is potty trained but still can forget when napping and overnight. Did you manage to get round this and if so how did you do it?

How can I get my 13 year old son to stop bedwetting? I buy Pull-ups, but they can get expensive. We have tried everything I can think of. Medicine, alarms, waking him up several times per night, no drinking after 7pm, etc. And he still seems to wet just about every night. Thanks for the advice!

Does anyone know why boys apparently have bedwetting problems about twice as often as girls? I've read this everywhere but have never seen anyone try to explain why this is the case. Does it have to do with the way the bladder or other organs develop during childhood? Is the typical age at which a boy with this problem finally "outgrows" it correspondingly later than that of a girl with the same problem? Would men then be more likely than women to continue to have "accidents" of bladder control during sleep even into adolesence and young adulthood?

Should my 12 year old son wear a diaper on the plane for bedwetting? My wife, son, and I are flying from Charlotte to Los Angeles, with a layover in El Paso on the way there. My son is a bedwetter and wears size 7 Pampers diapers at night. He says he will probably sleep on one, if not both, planes. He knows he will wet if he does sleep, so he wants us to bring his diapers in the carry-on bag. Should we do this or will people find out and make fun of him?

My girlfriend had a bedwetting episode - should she see a doctor? My girlfriend wet the bed last night.She says she had been dreaming of sitting on the toilet and urinating, but woke up when she felt the sensation of urine running down her legs.She has never wet the bed before and is quite embarrassed about this.Should she go see a doctor or wait to see if it happens again?

Can stress of middle school cause a child to start bedwetting? Years back my son used to wet the bed. I noticed it seemed to be during high stress times within the family. All had been well for 2-3 years until he started middle school this year, now it is chronic with no dry nights. Could there be a stressful situation that he is not sharing with me?

What should I do about my teenage daughter's bedwetting problem? My daughter is 16 years old and still has a problem with wetting her bed at night.It happens about once or twice a week.She is very embarrassed about this and it is affecting her self esteem.The doctor we saw just said she will outgrow the problem, but it hasn't happened yet.What should I do?

Are drill sergeants trained to deal with bedwetting discreetly? My son is starting basic training soon. Unfortunately he still has the occasional accident at night. If this happens and my son wakes up in the middle of the night wet, can he get a change of sheets and fresh clothes without everyone in the barracks finding out?

Guy, what would you do if your little sister started dating a bedwetting liberal? My little sister has this liberal guy friend who has been hanging around her more and more. He is always there to cry with her and talk about her emotions. I don't trust this little wuss. I've warned my little sister, this guy will not defend you, he will run away when danger comes. He will take her on boring dates to see French movies and he will drain her emotionally. Maybe she will just have to find out for herself, but I still think I should kick his ass.

Why is Bedwetting Associated with Pyschopaths? The three signs a young person will grow up to be a pyschopath are arson, cruelty to animals and ... bedwetting? How does that last one fit in?

How do I ask my parents for bedwetting diapers? Iv been a bedwetter all my life I'm 13 I just don't know how to ask the or how to bring it up in conversation so plz help

How can I stop my sisters guy friends and my guy friends from bedwetting on my favorite couch? The guy guests always sleep on the couch, and because of that, my couch was messed up 5 times. Oh the horrible smell! I really don't want to take chances again. The guests are usually 13-16 years old and weigh 120-180 lbs. It's my favorite couch.

How will bedwetting Libs handle the satellite shoot-down? On the one hand, it signals the demise of a United States spy satellite and they have to love that... BUT it's also a complete repudiation of their pacifistic criticism of our "Star Wars" defense technology. Ew... our military... successful.... AGAIN!

Where can I purchase a bed wetting alarm for bedwetting? I have a 8 year old son who still wets. I've tried waking him before I go to bed, restricting fluids in the evening, drugs (DDAVP tabs - expensive that didn't work) and it is really affecting his self esteem. I finally got him to a pediatric urologist who said everything was "fine" and told me that a bedwetting alarm is the most effective cure for him. Anyone heard of the malem alarm he recommended?

Should I wear the diapers I use for bedwetting to school? I'm 13 and a bedwetter. I wear diapers at night, Sometimes at school, I am not allowed to go to the bathroom and I have to hold it. Should I wear my diapers there so I don't have to hold it?

How do you stop a 14yr old bedwetting the bed? My sister is 14 yrs old. She keeps peeing in the bed. How do I stop that her doing that. She doesn't know I'm writing this. so. She never want me to tell this to nobody. She never want to sleep over nobody's house except for the friend she trusts. So I need help trying to tell her try to sleep over someone's house. Even her own boyfriend doesn't know this. Will she be able o stop peeing when she grows up. She maybe wants to have sex. But she's maybe will be afraid to sleep with somebody.

Should I encourage my bedwetting children to "come out of the closet" and go public about his bedwetting? My 9 year old son wets the bed. Many other 9 year olds also wet the bed. But all of them probably feel that they are the only ones, just like my sons. Should I encourage my son to go public, maybe make an announcement in the local paper or something? Someone has to take the first step, right? Maybe other kids would follow then. Soon the stigma would be gone.

Can anyone explain the treatment methods of the Enuresis Treatment Center for preteen bedwetting? After trying medicine, fluid restriction, waking my daughter, nothing is working. I am thinking of trying this center, but does anyone have any info on its effectiveness?

Will the security at the airport know I have bedwetting diapers in my carry on? Hi. I'm normal for a 12 year old boy except 2 things. One is I bedwet. And two is my mom and I are going to France for the summer. So since I'll sleep on the flight I'll wear a diaper up in the air. But my question is will the security know i have diapers in my carry on bag?

How does my daughter stop bedwetting? My daughter is nearly 12 but still wets the bed. She's had all the tests and there is nothing medically wrong with her, and she wears pull ups at night to protect her bed, but she hates these and I practically have to make her wear them every night. The pull ups sometimes leak and as she hates them so much, I'd hate to have to put her back in nappies. Any suggestions?

Will showing a picture of my son in his diapers help him stop bedwetting? My son is almost a teenager and still wets his bed. He wears nighttime protection for it. I threatened to make him sit for a picture in just his nighttime protection if he didn't stop wetting, but he kept wetting. So I've posted his picture (it's here as my profile). I know that the new age shrinks say not to humiliate them, but I'll bet you he stops doing it now. I'm emailing copies to everyone in the family as well as his classmates.

Is it true that Muslims won't buy their older children diapers for bedwetting because of cultural reasons? There's so many absorbent products now to help older kids and teenagers who wet the bed. (Underjams, GoodNites.) But I heard that many Muslims are unwilling to buy them for their kids because they're embarrassed that Muslim kids and teens would have this problem.

Recent bedwetting and accidents on the floor 2½ years old? My 2½ year old daughter has been potty trained for about 9 months and has done very very well. Recently she has started wetting her bed and even pee'ing on the floor during the day. Her sister just started school could this just be an insecurity about being alone?

Has anyone else ever had a bedwetting accident as an adult? A couple of nights ago I had a dream about standing in front of the toilet peeing.However, when I woke up my PJ's and the sheets were soaking wet.It was really embarrassing as my girlfriend was lying next to me.I'm 26 now and haven't wet the bed since I was 4.Should I be worried or go see a doctor?

My son is 10 and he is using a bedwetting alarm. He wears a sensor over his penis that detects urine? He is complaining about having to get up and change clothes every night. He said he wants a break from the alarm. Should I let him?

Where can I get help with bedwetting ? I'm 14 & I wet the bed, is there anyplace I can meet kids with the same problem & talk to them about it? Most of the message boards are full of weirdos. I have seen my Dr. & a few specialists, I should outgrow it soon. Besides the bedwetting which doesn't happen too often, I have overactive bladder syndrome & I take meds for that. I have lots of adults to talk to, but I'd like to talk to kids with the same problem. Sorry, I don't contact strangers online.

How to cure bedwetting, STILL at almost 16 years old? I am a VERY deep sleeper, almost 16 years old (male), and cannot shake this humiliating, debilitating problem. I went to the doctor a couple years ago about it, and was given pills, but they didn't seem to work. That or I didn't take them regularly enough. I also have an extremely small bladder, which probably has something to do with it. Solutions? Trolls will be reported, and answers will be rewarded. I am not asking how to not piss all over my sheets, I am asking how to stop completely.

Should I let my bedwetting child go on a sleepover? My ten year old wears protection at night for enuresis. I saw the underjams and goodnites commercials where the kids go on sleepovers and no one knows what's under their pajamas, but how realistic is that? He's been invited to a sleepover, but he and I are nervous: what are of his chances of having the other boys find out what he has under his pajamas?

Is bedwetting in adolecents caused by abuse? I know a family where all six children bed wetted until their teens. Two of the girls continued until they were in their late teens, the boys until they were 12 or 13 and one girl stopped at age 11. The mother had not told the girls about menstruation and two of them got this without knowing what it was. Does this suggest that they were abused? If so, what kind of abuse would be likely to cause this?

What is "normal" bedwetting for a 6 year old? My son is 6 yrs old and still wets his pants. I know this is still "normal", especially considering his dad was a bed wetter until he was 12, but my son actually wets himself more when he is awake than when he is sleeping. He says he doesn't know when he has to go, which can be a potential medical issue, but I think he might just be saying it to get out of trouble. He rarely ever wet himself during school, its usually when he is outside playing which makes me think he just doesn't pay attention. Any tips or advice? Suggestions to try first before seeing a doctor?

Do you know any pill that can cure bedwetting? My 11 year old sister still wets her bed.She tells me that she can't feel anything. My mom and I are very worried about her. Aside from going to the doctor or using an alarm clock,is there a pill that can cure it?

My 10 year old son wants to wear diapers for his bedwetting. Should I let him? My son has been wetting several times a week for about half a year. The doctor said it's better that he doesn't wear a diaper, because that will make it harder for him to stop wetting. But the other day my son asked me for diapers. He says he hates waking up cold and wet and he saw advertisements for goodnites on TV and he wants to wear them. I want my son to be comfortable, but will diapers cause more trouble than they'll solve?

My son is 11 and he is still trying to grow out of bedwetting, help? We are visting relatives for Thanksgiving, I am having him wear goodnites so he won't mess up there matress. He will be in a room with his cousins, how can he hide that he wears goodnites?

Bedwetting? I have a 10 year old son who has a bedwetting problem. Is there anything I can do to help stop this?

How do I start bedwetting? I need to urinate in my bed Help me out and I have to be asleep when I do It. Help me out. Only answers from people who are not embarrased to admit that they like peeing on themselves.

Is my four year olds bedwetting something to do with the absence of her dad? my four year old has started wetting the bed and her dad left a few weeks ago are the two related?

How to remove a child's old bedwetting smell from a bedroom? I tried carpet shampoo, baking powder and febreze, they just added to the smell. help... these are old AND new stains by the way

How can a 9 year-old be encouraged to stop bedwetting? The child does not does not feel the urine or is unable to wake up when it is coming.

I need bedwetting help for a 9 year old boy? I have a 9 year old client who wets his bed nightly. He brought up the other day that he really wants to stop. I have all the information that is common on the internet. I was just looking to see if anyone had any alternative or natural remedies? Thanks

Is t medication for bedwetting tofernell or what is the correct spelling?

what should i do with my bedwetting son are good nites helpful? my son is 10 years old and he still wets the bed well my daughter is 8 she also wetting the bed and my 6 year old has some accidents should i buy them goodnites.

what is the reason for bedwetting in sleep? Usually i wake up but last night my bed was wet while i woke up ? Usually i wake up when i feel urinating? But last night i was in deep sleep and when i woke up my bed was wet. I m male and the climate is cold here. What might be the problem? If any doctor please give me the advice.

Should I wear a diaper also so my boyfriend feels less self-conscious about his bedwetting? My boyfriend wets the bed and wears diapers for this problem. He was very uncomfortable about this and wouldn't snuggle with me in bed while he was wearing the diaper. So I found a solution. I started wearing one also. I think it makes him feel better. But is it right for me to do this since I don't wet the bed? In truth, it kind of makes me feel like a baby.Also it's getting warmer out and it makes me sweaty in the area it covers.

Is it really possible for kids to hide bedwetting at sleepovers? My 10 year old son has the smallest bladder? in the world.

Do you personally know or know of any boys that have bedwetting issues, and how do they deal with it? Do they go to sleepovers?

could milk and other dairy foods be the cause of bedwetting for some? i was a bedwetter as a child, i have noticed as an adult that if i drink milk, i seem to have to pee a lot more often, i drank a glass of milk before bed the other night and i got up at least 10 times to pee. my theory is: kids usually drink a lot of milk or other dairy foods, could this be a major contributer to why so many children are bedwetters? I heard that milk goes through the bladder slower than other liquids. hmmmmmmmmm.

Does any one know anything about adult bedwetting? My friend has done it twice in the past four years, since she's been married. But she said she has never done it before that. Should I be concerned about her health?

How do you know if your child has a bedwetting problem? My 3 year old is having this problem.? Is this normal for his age? He just turned 3 on August 5th. He has to be awakened every night to go potty. He wets himself almost everyday in daycare, and at home during the night. Should I be worried? How can I reduce this? I don't give him fluids after 8pm and he still wets himself. Please, anybody, HELP!

Are there any foods that help with bedwetting? My friend's daughter wets the bed and her mom was wondering. I've heard that cranberry juice can help a bladder infection go away, but is there other foods that help control the bladder?

My son goes into the army in two weeks. What's a quick cure for bedwetting? We've tried everything over the years, but nothing has stopped his wetitng. Now we're approaching the zero hour. In two weeks, he's going to basic training. We don't need some treatment that takes months. We need quick results!!! What to do?

Does anyone have any ideas on bedwetting? My recently potty trained three year old wet the bed last night and I cannot find anything to get rid of the smell. Can someone please tell me something that will get the urine smell out of his mattress?

What could be psychological reasons for bedwetting? In an 5-year old?

What are some causes of adult male bedwetting? Prostate? Has happened 5 or 6 times in the last couple of months. Woke up in the middle of the night, found myself wetting the bed. Twice I was dreaming that I was urinating.

I have two boys, 8 and 6; how can i talk to them about starting bedwetting alarm treatment? I want to get them alarms for christmas so they can work out their issues with it. I'm tired of buying diapers!!!

My 12 year old son makes fun of his younger brothers becuase they have bedwetting issues;can I stop teasing? It hurts their feelings. It's funny that he is mean to them about it because he was in diapers 24/7 until he was 5!! He makes really mean comments. he is a good kid, but he is very verbal and can be whiny and manipulative.

Does the bedwetting prank work? I was wondering if anyone knew the bedwetting prank actually works and how effective is it. IF you have any stories of the prank workign I'd love to hear it. I mainly wanted ot know if this works because I need to prank my cousin cuz she always prnaks everyone.

What's the best punishment for bedwetting? We have a child, already ten years old, and he still wets the bed. We've tried everything: grounding, taking away toys, no dessert. We even cancelled his birthday party, but nothing seems to work. We're at our wits' end. Help!

Is it really possible for kids to hide bedwetting at sleepovers? My 10 year old son has the smallest bladder in the world, and wears goodnites every night.

what is the best way to help a almost 7 years old boy with bedwetting problem?

How to Solve a Bedwetting Problem? I am 25 yrs old Male and I have a bedwetting problem. I know its an embarrasing problem. so looking for help and solutions from anyone who know anything about it or can help?Its been going on for since i was a child stopped for about 5 years inbetween and been having it since about last 4 years now.. Thanks

Does wearing pullups delay stopping bedwetting? I think I wet the bed until I was 6 or 7. I hated the feeling of wet clothing and sheets. My boys are 9, 7, and 5 and my ex does not want to clean sheets every day, so they are still in pullups. They are wet most nights. I just wondered if this was a security blanket that added to the problem rather than helped it.

what can i do about bedwetting? please help.i need to stop.my parents wont get me diapers.how do i stop,or where can i get free diapers delivered to me secretly?i cant go to the store alone.

need to purchase bedwetting alarm for my son who is very deep sleeper.Any advice on which sort of alarm?thanks unsure weather to go with the pad and bell alarm, wireless alarm or the one that clips onto childs underware? If any one has had any experience with bedwetting alarms, i would love your advice. Thanks

why do people have bedwetting when they take a glass of soft drink or milk before sleep at night ? is it due to phsycological factors or hereditary?

How can I prevent to pee in bed ( bedwetting)? do doctors help to prevent bedwetting?

What do you all suggest we do about a bedwetting? canidate for President. We are his handelers, he shall remain nameless, but he is an older canidate and , the name of his political party begins with an R, we are afraid the secret will get out. HELP

has anyone ever used a bedwetting alarm? my son is 8 yrs old and still wets the bed every night. we use pullups, but he is almost too big to fit in them anymore. we've tried not putting a pull up on and he just sleeps through the night and wakes up in a mess. he doesn't drink anything after about 7pm; he goes pee right before bed. anyway i have found a bedwetting alarm online and was thinking about trying it. has anyone else used one and was it successful?

What is the best bedwetting alarm to buy?

Question about how to prevent drunken bedwetting? Lately Ive been peeing myself nearly everytime I pass out drunk, even when I go right before bedtime. Short of either drinking less or sleeping in the bathtub, what should I do about this? Is there some pill or supplement that could help me stop wetting the bed? Im gettin real tired of washing my sheets everytime I tie one on.

how do i stop my deep sleeping child from bedwetting? my son is seven years old and wets the bed about 50% of the time. he is such a deep sleeper, so a bedwetting alarm will not wake him. i understand that i am to hear the alarm and wake him. but by that time, hasn't he already completely wet the bed???